When everyone back home is dressing up, lighting lamps, cooking special food, sending family photos — and you’re in a different country, in a hotel room, scrolling through it all.
Sometimes you choose to travel during festivals.
Sometimes work demands it.
Sometimes life just doesn’t align with the calendar.
And in that moment, the distance feels larger than geography.
But here’s what I’ve learned from travelling across countries and cultures:
Festivals have a strange way of finding you — even when you’re far from home.
🌙 The Night Ramadan Found Me in Egypt

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I was in Cairo during Ramadan, in March 2024.
One evening, I was walking on the street when a man from a local hotel called out to me. He could see I was a tourist. He asked if I had eaten.
Before I could respond properly, he insisted I sit down.
He brought out plates of food — beautiful, generous, homemade food. It wasn’t from the hotel kitchen. It was food his mother had packed and sent for him to break his fast.
And he shared it with me. He didn’t ask me my religion. He refused to take any money.
In that moment, I wasn’t an outsider. I wasn’t alone. I wasn’t away from home.
I was simply human, sharing a meal at sunset.
That evening taught me something profound:
Sometimes when you are away from your festival, someone else’s festival embraces you.
✨ Carry One Ritual With You

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When you can’t be home, carry a small piece of home.
It doesn’t have to be elaborate.
A diya in your suitcase
A playlist of devotional songs
A small prayer before stepping out
A sweet you packed from home
Even just wearing something traditional
One small ritual anchors you.
It tells your heart, “We are still celebrating.”
🌍 Let the World Add to Your Festival

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When you’re travelling, you have a rare opportunity.
You get to see how others celebrate.
Christmas markets in Europe.
Ramadan evenings in the Middle East.
Diwali in a small Indian community abroad.
Eid dinners with friends who warmly insist you eat more.
Instead of feeling deprived, let yourself be curious.
Festivals expand when we travel.
They become less about “how we do it” and more about “why we do it.”
🤍 If You’re Alone, Make It Gentle
Sometimes you truly are alone.
And that’s okay too.
Dress up — even if no one sees you.
Cook one simple dish.
Call your parents.
Light one candle.
Write down what you’re grateful for.
A quiet festival is not a failed festival.
It can be intimate. Reflective. Deep.
The more I travel, the more I realise:
Festivals are not about location.
They are about light.
Gratitude.
Connection.
Kindness.
And sometimes, when you least expect it, a stranger will remind you that home is not always a place.
Sometimes, it is a gesture.
Have you ever celebrated a festival away from home?
Did it feel lonely — or did something unexpected happen?
Tell me your story. I’d love to read it 🥰
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